Wunderlich

I like to think of foreplay as a delicious appetizer and a way to get things rolling. Now, there are plenty of ways to move this along, so lets start with some ideas and you can be creative from there.

As weve talked about before, some of the best foreplay is in the setting itself, so make sure that there are candles lit, and every arrangement has been made for an interrupted evening of bliss.

Feeding The Fire

One of the ways to get the night started is to feed each other. While eating isnt always the sexiest thing, being served can be.

If youre two couples, you can reverse roles. The women can feed the men, or vice versa. Do this slowly so that you can look into each others eyes. Try to signal your intentions for the evening, and let the other know how excited you already are.

Chocolate dipped strawberries are a decadent treat.

You can also offer each other drinks or other light snacks. Food has a way of calming us and getting us ready for deeper contact.

You can also put the morsel of food in your mouth and offer it to someone else, but they have to take it without using their hands. Delicious.

Turning On The Evening

While I dont suggest this for anyone that hasnt already propositioned it, watching a sexy movie can be a great way to introduce a sexy mood.

Find one that appeals to everyone and something that isnt too corny so that youre laughing more than youre becoming aroused. You may want to make suggestions among yourselves and then pick a few in case they dont end up working out.

Dim the lights and watch the action. Perhaps youll want to copy the actors as you watch. Let the darkness cover any nervousness.

Starting With Your Comfort Zone

Another great way to start a little foreplay seduction is to take turns showing affection to your partners. With your own partner, kiss, touch, and caress them. Show them how much you love them and their faith in your relationship.

Then the other couple can do the same. Before you know it, you will all be enjoying each other at the same time.

Now, switch.

Try A Game

There are plenty of dirty games out there that you can buy and play together. Try a naughty card game or striptease poker. Not only are these erotic, but they also can relax you into a seductive state.

And add in a lot of sexual innuendo and every ones in the end.

But this is just a sampling of things that you can do as foreplay. Of course, you can come up with your own versions of these appetizing starters.

Or if the heat is just right, you may not make it through them.

When youre first starting out though, I highly recommend doing something to get the evening started in the erotic tone. Start with the usual conversation and dinner, if youd like.

Then move to somewhere more comfortable and let the fun begin